"Just do you, man. Just do you." "Girl, just do you. That’s all. Just. Do. You." What does that mean, exactly? Maybe to some, it means: You are enough. Or perhaps: just be yourself. Fair enough. That’s not bad. But is that really what is communicated from such a sentiment? And is it the most loving thing one could say? Or might it be, perhaps, the most lazy thing we could offer. We live in a time of fake love. Lots of it. Have you ever been on the receiving end of that? Someo